Category Archives: Hair

Katie Style – Remember Me?

Dress – eloquii | Belt – thrifted | Shoes – Dansko | Brooch – teeny tiny store

Internets! I’ve missed you! It’s been a long time. But, excuses – I have them.

It’s been a super busy summer for me. I started my own business, am sort of planning a wedding (only “sort of” because my mom’s a rockstar. Without her, the reception would be at Applebee’s) and continuing to fool myself into thinking that I might be able to manage the process of moving ‘cross an ocean without going mad. We’ll see.

Oh, and then this guy sneezed on me.

See? Busy life.

The highlight of my week definitely has to be my new lack of hair. It’s still growing on me (ba-dum-ch!), but I think I love it.

Note how the silver headband matches all the silver hair I’ve been too lazy to dye. Coordination for the win!
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Millie’s Ongoing Adventures at the Hairdresser’s

I’ve been getting my hair cut by a lovely and awesome lady C. for a couple of years now. I went today to get my shaggy mop of hair trimmed, and since I’ve been halfheartedly growing it out for a while, it’s even shaggier than it usually is when I finally get around to getting it cut. So I go in, and her first remark is “I think that’s the longest I’ve ever seen your hair!”

My hair is barely down to my chin, and I suspect it is in fact the longest she’s ever seen it. She then taught me how to put my hair in pincurls, which I am so trying sometime when I’m working from home. And yes, I’ll (probably) post pictures even if (especially if?) it’s as much of a disaster as I expect it to be.

Part of the reason I think she’s great is that she has never once given me flak about a) having short hair (quite the opposite, actually), b) owning no hair implements, c) getting A. to trim my hair between my infrequent cuts and d) generally being entirely ambivalent about hair things. Then about halfway through, this happened:

M: “So I bought a hair straightener a while back, and it’s fantastic! I use it on the side bits that always flip out horizontally, and my hair looks so much better.”

C. “Oh my goodness, I’m so proud of you! Straighteners are the best, and you can do so much with them.”

Yup, she’s great. Sadly I had to walk home in a rainstorm, and now look like a drowned rat, but I looked really spiffy for the few minutes before I left the store.

Two Questions for the Internet Brain Trust

1.) How on earth do you avoid getting those tiny little air bubbles in nail polish? I let the polish dry between layers, but maybe just not enough? I’m also Impatient McGee — if that’s the issue, how do I best speed up the drying?

2.) I loooove my short hair, but I looooooved it more when it was slightly longer on the sides, and as such am growing it out. I know there’s no dignified way to grow out a pixie cut, but how do you guys manage it? Head scarves are the obvious answer, but they accuentuate my already tubular head, and that’d clash with my image as an egghead, so you know, that’s out. Headbands are tricky due to glasses wearing. Any bright ideas, or ways around the tubular head or the many things behind the ears?

Katie Daily Style – Freshly Shorn

  • Dress- thrifted
  • Tank – thrifted
  • Skirt – thrifted
  • Belt – thrifted
  • Shoes – Target
  • Necklace – ?
I didn’t get a haircut…I got ‘em all cut! [Ba-dum]

I’d been dreaming for a long time of going full pixie a la Clare, Nina or Chalkdust. But the more I thought about it, the more I wasn’t ready to completely give up my curls. So here’s the compromise: short, layered, and somewhat channeling a combination of Elizabeth Taylor in A Place in the Sun and Drew Barrymore in everything she did in the 90′s.

The only downside is that I’ve discovered one curl bound and determined to grow straight up. Little Rascals reunion, here I come!

Wookin’ pa nub in all the wong paces…

Katie Daily Style – Head o’ Hair

  • Check shirt – thrifted
  • Denim skirt – thrifted
  • Wedges – Softwalk
  • Bubble necklace – The Rocket Scientist
  • Hair – both sides of the family debate who takes the blame

I’m kicking off my participation in Academichic’s Dress Your Best celebrating a body part that’s not in the best of my graces right now: my hair.  After all, it’s difficult to love something that has a history of abandoning you.

I’ve mentioned my illness and hair loss before, but the Cliff Notes is that the autoimmune disorder Hashimoto’s Disease resulted in my body’s inability to keep hair stuck to my head. There have been many nights of tears as my hair seemed to rain down onto my shoulders and many moments of temptation to just grab the clippers and buzz it all off.

But there are bright sides. My hair loss will stop, and in the mean time I still have a snazzy head of the stuff. I love its:

Most importantly, I love how my hair taught me to listen to my body. If my hair hadn’t started falling out, I wouldn’t have gone to the doctor. If my hair hadn’t kept falling out, I wouldn’t have fought to have more and more tests done, even when the results were coming back as “normal.” And today I woudn’t know what my body was doing and how to take care of it.

Today big earrings and a statement necklace draw attention to my head and hair (how could you miss it?), and I celebrate what I still have.

So here’s to my hair in all its glory, the litmus test atop my head. May it stick around long enough to grow out past this wonky bangs stage.

Post Haircut

You know how after you get your haircut, you have to brush it out to get rid of any lose hairs that must be banished before they migrate into your underwear?

Oh yeah, lookin’ good.

That is all.

Haircut Time

I usually get my hair cut once a year. Crazy, I know, but when you have curly hair and don’t use shampoo, you’d be surprised what you can get away with. I’m getting it cut tomorrow, but I’m still not sure what to do.

Part of me wants to go all wee pixie like Chalkdust and Clare, but that may wait until I’m a little more settled in the rest of my life – one major change at a time.

So what to do? I like le bangs, so those’ll stay. But as for the rest of it I’m not sure.

Here’s a walk down I.A. lane via my hair.

Short Hair

Slightly-Less Short Hair

Slightly-Less-Less-Short Hair

What would you do, wombats, if my hair was yours? Awesome-but-impractical suggestions like the reverse mohawk will be ignored, but I’m open to suggestions.

Interrobangs Retrospective: Our Favorite Posts of the Past Year

Or, in which the Interrobangs kill two birds with one post.

One year anniversaries call for cake!

A year has come and gone, and it hasn’t just been a calendar year, but also the first year of Interrobangs Anonymous. Technically, our first post was on December 21, 2009, but with the hullabaloo of Christmas, Solstice, New Years, and Tuesdays, we postponed our celebrating until now. So here are our favorite posts of 2010/our first year blogging together.

This is how we really act

Style and Self-Image

Tutorials

Resources

Series

Pure Awesomeness

The past year has been so much fun. Thank you for reading, commenting, and being such an amazing community of fun, inspiration, and friends.

Going “No Poo” (aka Getting Your 19th Century On*)

I’ve mentioned a few times on the blog that I no longer use shampoo: I’m a “no-poo” girl. Because people keep asking me about the choice, and what I use instead of shampoo to keep my hair clean and healthy, I thought I’d share it here.

A few points before we start:

(1) I started exploring the no-poo approach as a way to take care of my wavy/curly hair. However, I’ve read accounts advocating the method from people with a variety of hair types.

(2) Some people claim that reducing/eliminating shampoo from your haircare routine can solve some scalp conditions (dandruff, eczema of the scalp etc.) caused by allergic reactions to the chemicals in shampoo. However, most descriptions of a no-poo routine assume a healthy scalp. If you are using a medicated or prescription shampoo, going no-poo may not be the right choice.

(3) What I’m going to share is what I’ve found that works for my hair with my lifestyle in the climate I live in. My routine may not work for your hair, but a different combination of steps and products might work wonderfully. If you want to try going low or no-poo, you have to experiment.

What is the “No-Poo” Movement?


Put simply, the no-poo movement states that shampoo is unnecessary. The main argument behind the movement is that the combination of natural scalp oils, friction and water are all that’s needed to clean your hair.

Say what?!?

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Old Grey Mare, She Ain’t What She Used to Be

Emmylou Harris, the most beautiful grey-haired lady I can post since my mum never lets me take her picture

Ever since I had my hair cut into bangs last month, I’ve gotten lots of comments. Most are along the lines of, “Wow, great haircut!” because, let’s face it, it is. But a striking number of the comments haven’t been about the haircut at all, but rather what you can see now that I have it.

And what is suddenly more visible? My grey hair. I’ve been greying since I was 15 or so, and while the grey is largely distributed amongst the dark hair, I have one section along my hair line that has more grey than other areas. Before I had bangs, that grey section was usually under my part, so it wasn’t very noticeable. But bangs have brought the grey section front and center. I don’t know if any of you have noticed it in the newer photos but, if you look for it, the grey hair is there.

I used to dye my hair to cover the grey but I stopped last December. So far, so good, and I hadn’t given it much though this past year other than to notice that my hair feels a lot healthier now than it did when I dyed it all the time.

Many of the comments I’ve received are of the passing, “oh, you have grey hair”  variety. Naught wrong with that, ’cause it’s true. However, here are some of the ones that’ve been making me pause:

  • Wow, that’s really brave of you not to dye your hair.
  • Doesn’t it make you feel old?
  • What does your boyfriend think?
  • I could never do it, but good for you!

And, the kicker:

  • Oh, hon, a girl your age is too young to give up on herself.

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Some Thoughts on Shorter Hair

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Lately, I’ve been wearing my hair in a ponytail every day. This isn’t so much a style choice as it is a coping choice. You see, it turns out I’ve been sick and said sickness has been making my hair fall out. A lot. Luckily, we’ve figured out what’s wrong, it’s treatable, and I’ve been put on meds that should stop the hair loss. But for the past few months, I’ve felt something of a captive to my hair and what it was doing.

My first reaction to the hair loss was to cut it all off. I figured that hundreds of short hairs falling out each day would be psychologically less traumatic than hundreds of long ones. But then I realized that I’d end up with “haircut itch” – you know, all the little hairs that get trapped on your neck and down your shirt after a haircut – every day. I was also worried how I’d look with short hair. Specifically, I was worried that a short haircut would make my head look like a Q-tip stuck atop an egg.

You see, somewhere along the way I had ingrained the idea that “larger” women needed longer/bigger hair to balance out the rest of their figure. At 6 feet tall and a size 16, I’m not little. Having had a lot of big, poofy hair most of my life, I became used to having that hair balance my wide hips, large bust, and overall lack of petite-ness. I don’t know where I got the idea that my proportions needed all that hair, but let’s just blame society, shall we? A quick search of the internet reveals that I’m not the only one with this (insanely silly and false) idea. I found dozens of discussion threads with titles like “Short haircuts that won’t make me look fatter,” “Can big women have short hair?” and “Will long hair make me look thinner?”

Taking a deep and rational breath made me realize that this is a rubbish idea. The human brain is not so easily fooled that the presence/absence of 5 inches of hair will dramatically change the way the rest of me appears – my body is the same, hair or not. It’s going to take a while for my hair to stop falling out, so I won’t be cutting my hair anytime soon. However, once I’m healthy again there’s nothing to stop me considering something on the shorter side.

For some more interesting and inspiring thoughts on shorter hair, here’s your recommended readings for the day:

And for some positively gorgeous short hair inspiration, be sure to check out:

What do you think? Are there certain hairstyles that you think just work better on certain figures/shapes, or is it a coiffed-free-for-all? Is there a style you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?

The Leg Hair Question

But first, some context. I volunteer in a container vegetable garden on campus, and while it’s superawesome and lots of fun, it is hot sweaty work, and my shifts are usually around noon. Shorts are by far the most comfortable choice of bottom-half-of-the-body clothing for gardening in the middle of August. I had a shift this morning, but I woke up late, and didn’t have time to shave my legs, which haven’t been shaven in at least a week and a half (and probably longer). I had a bus to catch and gardening to do, so out the door I went with very visibly bristly legs. I’m lucky in that I’m fair-haired (though it means I burn like mad, which I did on my shift last week) and it takes a few days for the hair to be visible, but I felt pretty conspicuous today. I don’t want this to become a “women who shave their legs are capitulating to patriarchy / women who don’t shave their legs are gross feminists” strawwoman nonsense, but I’m curious where your comfort limit is with regards to leg shaving. Are you an every-day leg shaver? Or are you comfortable going out with it unshaven as long as it’s not very obvious? How context-specific is your comfort level? On the flipside (and I’m really curious what you have to say about this), is leg hair on other women something that you notice?

Millie Daily Style: Bad Hair Day

So, in usual Millie fashion, I should’ve gotten a haircut a month ago and just got around to it yesterday. Unfortunately, I forgot to sort of flatten the top when it dried this morning, and I wound up with a whopping case of Pointy Head Syndrome. I gave it my best this morning, but for you, oh internet folk, you get my spiffy new hat*:

Olive green shirt, brown striped shirt, pale yellow straw hat with brown ribbon, goofy grin.

I took this like twenty minutes ago and I already can't remember what A. was doing that made me guffaw. Clearly my memory is failing in my old age.

  • Olive green button-up shirt: thrifted
  • Brown striped skirt: thrifted
  • Straw hat: Modcloth

I’m pretty sure this green and skirt were made for each other, and I even found them at the same time! So stripey. You’re going to have to wait until I figure out what to do with this much shorter mop of hair, though. Even though I’ve had short hair for years and years, it always takes me a few days to figure out the idiosyncrasies of a particular new haircut, and I look at least slightly (more) ridiculous until I do.

I really like the woman who cuts my hair now — she does a great job (it looked superawesome when she was done with it, and I didn’t even think about sticking a scarf on it the way I usually do when I’m done getting it cut because I look like a floofy poodle or something) and she’s not all gabby while she cuts my hair (I am not a gabby-with-hairstylists sort of lady). I asked for a trim, and mentioned that I’d gotten A. to trim the back so it didn’t look so mullet-y and so it was shorter than everything else. She laughed, said she was wondering about that, and promptly started to take off half my hair. A few minutes later, she asked the seemingly inevitable question:

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Katie Daily Style – Anarchy in High Heels

  • Purple shirt – Target (worn backwards to create a boatneck front and scoop neck back)
  • Black dress – thrifted
  • Braided necklace – self-made
  • Turquoise earrings – World Market
  • Scarf as belt – Mum
  • Purple socks – Target
  • Sandals – Payless

This past week of Dressing Your Best really was inspiring, wasn’t it? My biggest take away from the experiment, besides an expanded appreciation for the myriad of ways people love themselves, is the tremendous feel of satisfaction I got from taking risks. Because, let’s face it, in a society that expects modest attitudes, self-deprecation, and even self-disparagement when it comes to how you feel about your appearance, spending a week highlighting what you love is pretty darn risky. I loved it.

So I took some more risks today. They may not seem that daring to you, but trust me, for me today was the sartorial equivalent of walking on a tightrope blindfolded while carrying a greased pig and whistling Flight of the Bumblebee. What did I do? Behold! I wore my shirt backwards (and for once I did it on purpose!), wore high heels (quite dangerous, given how far I have to fall on these legs), wore socks with sandals (the horror!), and did nothing to contain the giant poof o’ curls atop my head.

The hair was an especially important step. Ever since I started a proper job after grad school, I felt the need to have proper hair. And, like many a curly-haired girl, I’ve grown up surrounded by messages that proper hair is smooth, shiny, and STRAIGHT. I’ve even had well-meaning people tell me that I’ll never be taken seriously with curly hair, that it would hinder my career. So I used to straighten it, but it took a lot of time (both the straightening and the trips to Urgent Care when I inevitably burned myself) and it was wrecking my hair. So I stopped. This hair is here to stay, in all its springy, wavy, slightly-electrocuted looking glory. So instead of pulling it back while it dried to decrease the volume, or adding gel to control its horizontal reach, I didn’t do a thing to it. And I think the risk paid off.

Vanity License Plates, Smoke, Auctions

[i (heart)] BITTU – Dodge Caravan – really?! Vampires stuff is being taken too far. And really minivan?!

I’m very good at setting things on fire, or almost on fire.

Exhibit A – In high school I almost always set the microwave popcorn on fire. I would watch it make sure it wasn’t on for too long, next thing you know, there is smoke, you take out the popcorn bag, and there is a hole burnt through the bottom. Half the popcorn is inedible. But the other half – we almost always ate. This happened more than once.

Exhibit B – Vacuuming our house, I make Katie’s vacuum smoke – almost setting it on fire? Maybe? Well, happens that the elastic thing… well got all caught and rubber burning. Lots of smoke. No actual fire though. I fixed the vacuum myself though. Katie can testify to that. She probably still has that vacuum. Just like I still have shovel fantastic (remember that one?) – ‘I [heart] snow,’ ‘I learned that one in the joint’… memories.

Exhibit C – Monday. Drying my hair. Hair dryer starts smoking. Me – unplug hair dryer. Smoke alarm – chilling. It was pretty smoky. Me – bad hair days ensue for four days until I get a second to go buy a new hair dryer. This time – with ion infusion action.

Went to an auction today. We got this cool looking chest/trunk sort of thing. More chest than trunk. No pictures, and we dropped it off for a vacation at a friend’s house until we move so we don’t have to lug it.

Fashion-wise, things are not too exciting on my front. Things are shaping up to be pretty conservative in my library. Maybe I need more cardigans?

Katie Daily Pretty – An Open Letter To Sandra Bullock

So Pretty

Dear Sandy (can I call you Sandy?),

Congratulations on your Oscar win on Sunday! I suspect right now you’re feeling a combination of elation, thrill, the desire to do spontaneous happy butt dances all over the place and…dare I say it…a little trepidation? Anxiousness? You just won an Oscar, what are you going to do now (I’m assuming you’ve already been to Disney World)? No need to be ashamed of feeling this way, trust me. I experienced something quite similar when I won the award for Best English Student in 8th grade – once you’re at the top, where else can you go?

If I may be so bold, I have a suggestion. It may seem a bit radical, a tad extreme, and your close friends and family will probably wonder what meds you’ve been on and why in goodness you decided to go off them, but stick with me here. It’s time for America’s Sweetheart to throw everyone for a loop and…are you ready for this?… switch hair with me.

“Now, wait a minute,” you might think. “I’m Sandra Bullock, and my hair, which has always been gorgeous, has reached a new level of shine-a-locity. Why would I switch hair with someone who, with the right eye makeup, has hair that lets her readily pass as Robert Smith?”

Other than the chance to get to break into “Just Like Heaven” whenever you felt like it and have an awesome second career as a busker, you mean? Fair enough. Here are the top 4 reasons why you, Sandra Bullock, should have my hair:

  • Cushioning from falling rocks. It’s the natural disaster you never think about, but if John Cusack and 2012 taught us anything, it’s that when the world ends a lot of things will try to hit you in the head. Sure, you could start wearing a helmet, but then you’d have helmet hair. Mine’s gives you the look of helmet hair, but without the pesky helmet!
  • Curly hair looks good after it rains. Well, not if it’s a heavy downpour, that ruins it. And you might want to stay away from windy rain, that’ll just mess the curls up. Oh, and light misty rains just make the top layer frizz. But if you’re inside while it’s raining, it’s all good.
  • Left un-styled, eventually your hair will resemble a bird’s nest. Then, with a little birdseed I bet you could get some small birds to move into your hair, and later on you can train them to help you get dressed in the morning, a la Cinderella.
  • No one’s yet been talented enough and brave enough to make the one movie that still needs making: the epic cinematic story of Rosanne Rosanadana. I know Helen Miren is in development talks to play the part, but with my hair and your comic timing you’re a shoe-in!

And the top reason I should have yours?

  • It’s so pretty!

Katie Daily Style – Sparkles and Matching Socks!

This photo was taken after a very long day, so I’m a wee bit more wrinkled and worse for wear than usual.

  • Pink, blue and black scarf – thrifted
  • Blue cardigan – Target (and I just discovered a tear in the neckline. Oh Target, ye makers o’ quality)
  • Black shirt – Target new stock via Goodwill (I feel less guilty about wearing Target when I only pay $1.00 for it)
  • Jeans – Mavi
  • Black, swoopy, “sort of like feathers and sort of like waves” earrings – local boutique
  • Rhinestone scarf clip – thrifted
  • pink socks you can’t see but match the scarf perfectly – thrifted (but new!)

This is one of those outfits that I thought looked a lot better in person than it did on camera. Nice and comfy again for another day of sitting at my desk (next week I have to look really nice, so I’m saving it all up for then). The scarf was the inspiration for the whole shebang, and I liked how it was matchy (e.g. the unseen socks and scarf) but not too matchy (the cardigan and the scarf are different(ish) blues).

I’m also trying to figure out my new haircut, which is 90% what I wanted. Last summer I created a collage of hairstyles to show my stylist, highlighting what I wanted and what I didn’t. The result was the best haircut ever. That was it’s official title, and I loved it. This is the third time I’ve had the cut, and I thought the stylist would have it down by now, and she mostly did, but I should have brought the photos with me again. If only it was a little longer in the front…

Oh well, it just means I can go longer until I need the next cut.

Opinions needed!

So, I’ve got two things that I’m not entirely sure about, and I’d like some feedback. First up, belting.

I am very much a belt-to-hold-your-pants-up sort of lady, but there’s lots of people who belt with abandon and do it well (Katie’s been doing this in the past couple of posts, and A. E. and S. are pros at it). In reorganizing my wardrobe, I found this belt that was my Mom’s from 30 or so years ago that doesn’t really work in the holding-up-pants department, but is lovely and kind of neat. It’s patent red, goes around the waist twice, and I’ve never figured out what to do with it. So I put this together; I love grey and red together, and the bright blue tank top underneath gives it a nice pop. But I’m not entirely sold on it, and I’m not sure why. What do you think?

Does this work, I wonder?

Hmmm, perhaps!

Hmm, perhaps!

Hilariously, A. is rather baffled about this outfit (“Why do you have a belt halfway up your chest?”). He’s very much a belts-are-for-holding-pants-up sort too, apparently.

Secondly, the hair cut. I have a… tumultuous history with hair cuts, and this is the next iteration of it, I guess. I have a tendency to put off cutting my hair for months, then impulsively go with no idea what I want to do with it except “something like what this was a month ago before it got ridiculously overgrown but slightly different.” This, predictably, often goes badly, because I also switch stylists very, very frequently (partially because nothing ever works, partially because I move, and partially because I used to get my hair cut at a hair school, which was fabulous but luck of the draw as to who you got). Ever since the British guy that all the Interrobangs used to have cut their hair left town (someone got coupons for free haircuts, we were students, and he did a really nice job), it’s been less than stellar in Millie-Hairville. Add into the fact that this lady (first time at this salon) misinterpreted my “a fair bit off the back” as the entire back of my head instead of just the length, and… I have considerably less hair than I was hoping to have. It’s a fair interpretation of what I said, but I didn’t realize it until it was too late, and now I’m stuck with it for a while. A long while, because it’s short at the back. So this is a close(r)-up of it with minimal styling. It’s a technically good cut, but it’s not what I wanted, and also I was sort of thinking about growing the whole mess out, and that’s apparently right out for a while.

But what to do with the hair?

So, what say you? How should I style this? This is just air dried and combed, so it’s flat and kind of “ehn.” And, since a lot of the issue is that I don’t have a good concept of what sort of hair cut suits me, do you have an idea of what you think might work well for me?

PS — After taking these pictures, I realized that the bookshelf is, er, not exactly even. Closer inspection shows that it’s the floor that’s uneven (and thus the bookcase is tilted a bit), not my ridiculously contrived picture taking set-up. Perhaps one day when I’m feeling ambitious (ha!) I’ll wedge it up with something to even it out.

On that note – New Haircut

Front Image - I like how it frames my face

Side Image - It is what the stylist calls disconnected

Usually I’m really bad at getting my hair cut regularly and go every year or so, but I got my hair cut in mid October and again yesterday. I think I’m much closer to the suggested 6-8 weeks for haircuts. I think going shorter is also forcing me to sort of keep it up. I’ve found that I’ve been styling my hair and paying attention to drying it properly too since it’s been shorter, and having your hair look nice makes you feel great, so why not?

Now this haircut is a bit more experimental than I usually go for, but at this point I’ve decided to put my confidence in the hair stylist, and this is the first time I saw this stylist and went to this salon. I really like the way this cut brings out the bone structure in my face. It is definitely more European and cutting edge, I think. It also doesn’t get in my face even though there is a bit of a fringe, because it’s so light you can push it back easily, and it stays put in general.

The stylist I went to only cuts hair – he doesn’t colour or do updo’s or anything else, and he studied in London, England. He’s a man, and the last few male stylists I have had have always been good, and only one of the three was gay. Interesting. I wonder if the male + England factors have anything to do with it. I have gathered from my conversations with these stylists that in England there is much more creativity with hair style and hair cutting is more of an art. There executives can have edgy styles with pink highlights and it’s completely acceptable, it’s style. Is there less of a dichotomy there?

England and Europe in general tend to have more bold hair styles and clothing styles in general. It’s kind of like in North America we see the European styles and then pick and choose parts, making them more conservative in the process. I wonder if we lived there if we would find the culture and personality in these areas much different than those to which we are accustomed in North America. I have a feeling we might.